Often we ask ourselves – can I do that? When really we should be asking – do I want to do that?
You see the power to make change comes from within. If you want to make a change you can… but only if you really want to. It’s really a matter of whether you truly want it, not whether you can do it or not.
If you want it badly enough, you’ll find a way to get it.
At first, when you look at the road you are about to embark on it will seem scary, nay near on impossible. But as the cheesy quote goes ‘nothing is impossible, even impossible spells I’m possible’. Gosh, that is so cheesy! I can’t believe I wrote that. But the sentiment is true. The road will be new, unfamiliar and fear will be clawing at your ankles. But when you really want something you find that strength inside and you find the courage to pull away from its embrace.
You might not know how you are going to reach the goal; that doesn’t matter. You can make a thousand plans and most of them will turn out completely differently to how you imagined. Life is full of variables and chances. It’s hard to plan the route. How you get there isn’t important – so long as you have your sense of self and you treat others with respect. All you need to know is ‘I want it; therefore if I can dream it the possibility exists. And if the possibility exists then I can find a way to achieve it.’
At first in might be difficult to have faith in yourself. But eventually, if you keep on having the courage to follow your desires you will find yourself becoming stronger. At first, it will feel a little forced but when you are in your stride you will feel the change around you. You will realise that with determination you have the power to build the life you want.